Help me!

[Kim_Moki]

i have this trans "friend" that's dating people out of her age my friend is 13 and poly and I noticed shes dating a 17-year-old Idk what to do or say to make her/him stop doing these things can u help me pls if u have advice..

 

[http.yyanggii]

i have this trans "friend" that's dating people out of her age my friend is 13 and poly and I noticed shes dating a 17-year-old Idk what to do or say to make her/him stop doing these things can u help me pls if u have advice..

I mean tbh it depends what country u live in...... like if I knew what country u lived in that might help me give u advice...... ( like not in a creepy way where I’m tryna figure out where u live. Im trying to figure out age things )

 

[Kim_Moki]

i need more advice!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[XOXZ]

Maybe talk to your friend's parents & let them know what's going on? Like someone else said, we can't tell if the age thing is a big deal since we don't know where you are from, since the age of consent is different everywhere.

 

[myheartizomg]

If they don't listen to you like @angelcore said talk to their parents. You can't do much about it if they insist on dating older people no matter how many advices you give them. 13 is a tender age and there's no clear sense of situations yet.

 

[VIPJACKAHGADAY]

Your friend sounds like me. When I was 14, I went after a guy who was not only 18 but also across the world. If you do happen to inform the parents and they forbade her/him from dating that person, just advise her that it's better to wait when she's older and understands better what she really wants. But tbh, some things may never change. Your friend might still want to date older guys when she is of age, and just know that it's ok. Feelings can't be controlled. Love can't be controlled. And this is coming from a 19-year-old who tried to go after a 27-year-old.

 

[Kim_Moki]

thx for all of the advice im done with talking with him

 

[http.yyanggii]

I mean tbh you can’t really do anything until the person your “friend” is dating turns 18 bc that means he can’t date anyone underage ( depends where u r actually...... ) Until then leave it alone because it’s a 4 year age gap it’s not that bad..... but if the friend doesn‘t stop dating the person when they turn 18 your going to have to like say something bout it cause it’s illegal ( again depends where u are ). U could also try to talk ur friend out of it bc the 17 yr old person could be looking for something more than just a relationship and talking....... But other than that u can’t do anything bout it......

 

[ego-chan]

i have this trans "friend" that's dating people out of her age my friend is 13 and poly and I noticed shes dating a 17-year-old Idk what to do or say to make her/him stop doing these things can u help me pls if u have advice..

tbh idk but like everyone say if u tell her parents and she want to date older guys still then u can't change her mind but be there for her.....sorry if im not much help its kinda like me so

 

[ego-chan]

sorry sorry im not rlly good at giving this kind of advice @Kim_Moki sorry

 

[Kim_Moki]

sorry sorry im not rlly good at giving this kind of advice @Kim_Moki sorry

T-T

 

[ego-chan]

T-T

maybe its was best for me not to say anything

 

[Kim_Moki]

maybe its was best for me not to say anything

sksksksskskssksksksks i kinda did it before too skskskssk...

 

[Kim_Moki]

sksksksskskssksksksks i kinda did it before too skskskssk...

i say sksks when im shy/nervous

 

[ego-chan]

sksksksskskssksksksks i kinda did it before too skskskssk...

yh but i have more older friends then friends/lovers my age. thats kinda bad

 

[ego-chan]

i say sksks when im shy/nervous

i notice it but its fine its kinda cute

 

[Kim_Moki]

i notice it but its fine its kinda cute

 

[ego-chan]

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cuteeeeeeeee