I just got into an argument with my friend and I said some offensive things to her. My whole friend group is on her side which I don't blame them for. She cried earlier today because of it. My other friends were yelling. I know I need to apologize tomorrow but I don't know how. We also have a party tomorrow with our extended friend group and I want to get everything resolved so there won't be any tension between us. What should I do?
For the "offensive things" I'm going to explain that more in detail. Again, I know I'm in the wrong and I want to fix that and I want to know how for this situation. There is this person in our grade that everyone dislikes. He goes around saying some inappropriate things. He also said that he was the girlfriend of my friend (the one I got in an argument with) when he wasn't. He would always bother us and it was terrible.
We were hanging out during lunch today with another person who isn't really that close with me but is great friends with other members of the friend group. She got into an argument with her friend and we were discussing that and how she could apologize, etc. then, he (the person who always bothers us) came and started listening to our conversation. Many of my friends then told him to "please leave because we were having a private conversation" he argued and there was just a whole mess. Then, my friend (the one I got into an argument with) told us that we should stop and just let him stay.
To talk about this friend, she's really nice and softhearted especially when compared to the rest of us. She's the nicest out of the six of us and whenever someone wants something from us, they'll ask her first. On the other hand, the rest of us are known for being a little more brutal.
Back to the story, I asked her if she "seriously was going to defend him out of all people". Okay, this already sounds really bad and I know it's mean and terrible but he really did do some terrible things worthy of that statement (in my opinion). I have no clue what happened after but I believe she then asked if just because she defends someone does that means she likes them and I said yes. I'm not going to bother trying to make an excuse for that except (this is an excuse) that I don't actually believe it. My petty self decided to say it to prove a point that didn't need to be proven. After that, the argument kind of broke off because I left.
A few minutes later, the friend I got into an argument with started crying and our friend group went to comfort her. That was a few hours ago. Just now, I got yelled at by some of my other friends while one friend asked if I hated her (the friend I got into an argument with). I need to apologize and I don't know how. Do you guys have any tips?
(I'm not even sure if this is the right section to post it in so feel free to delete it)
For the "offensive things" I'm going to explain that more in detail. Again, I know I'm in the wrong and I want to fix that and I want to know how for this situation. There is this person in our grade that everyone dislikes. He goes around saying some inappropriate things. He also said that he was the girlfriend of my friend (the one I got in an argument with) when he wasn't. He would always bother us and it was terrible.
We were hanging out during lunch today with another person who isn't really that close with me but is great friends with other members of the friend group. She got into an argument with her friend and we were discussing that and how she could apologize, etc. then, he (the person who always bothers us) came and started listening to our conversation. Many of my friends then told him to "please leave because we were having a private conversation" he argued and there was just a whole mess. Then, my friend (the one I got into an argument with) told us that we should stop and just let him stay.
To talk about this friend, she's really nice and softhearted especially when compared to the rest of us. She's the nicest out of the six of us and whenever someone wants something from us, they'll ask her first. On the other hand, the rest of us are known for being a little more brutal.
Back to the story, I asked her if she "seriously was going to defend him out of all people". Okay, this already sounds really bad and I know it's mean and terrible but he really did do some terrible things worthy of that statement (in my opinion). I have no clue what happened after but I believe she then asked if just because she defends someone does that means she likes them and I said yes. I'm not going to bother trying to make an excuse for that except (this is an excuse) that I don't actually believe it. My petty self decided to say it to prove a point that didn't need to be proven. After that, the argument kind of broke off because I left.
A few minutes later, the friend I got into an argument with started crying and our friend group went to comfort her. That was a few hours ago. Just now, I got yelled at by some of my other friends while one friend asked if I hated her (the friend I got into an argument with). I need to apologize and I don't know how. Do you guys have any tips?
(I'm not even sure if this is the right section to post it in so feel free to delete it)
