Vent abt relationships

[iiserene]

Feel free to vent about your relationship(s) here!
I will try to respond ❤

here is my situation:
so basically my best friend has been dating this guy for like months now. If I'm being 100% honest, he's not my favorite person in the world.
Just recently he dumped her over text and then ignored all of us. Which hey, I mean maybe understandable since you just broke up but things get worse-
I am already really sad because he has kinda become part of our ¨friend zone¨ and he just threw it all away T-T
But just recently he texted my best friend (his ex) asking her to help him get a new gf.
Its like-
EXCUSE ME???
That is not something you ask of your ex gf. Do you know how much that hurt her Mr? So now she is basically depressed because he moved on from her so fast and we are all pretty sad that he has thrown away our months of friendship we had

 

[Harleyquinfan]

techincally we dont have a 'relationship' but we are good 'friends'

but me and my crush lets call her a have been talking for a month (ik such a short time to like someone ik) but going into a few weeks last months she was being touchy nd clingy nd it was adorable so i let her be clingy but that a week or 2 later we don't even talk that much like we used too- hell we cant even hold one decent conversation. we sometimes talk abt some things but when i try to she either on her phone or doing french work during first lunch or talking to her friends during second nd third lunch, it was to the point our mutual friend noticed nd tried to get us to talk to each other but that went terrible so she suggested that maybe i give her space nd i did ( 2 weeks) bc ion want to bother her

so today she was doing math work nd she was getting annoyed nd i teased her abt it she got a bit annoyed after a couple mins later she got done nd played a game on her phone, she was tapping it so hard it sounded/looked like she was going to break it so i teased her again nd said "try not to break your phone a" she said shut up. others would've been mad but that mad me smile a bit (idk wht to do or how to feel she knows i like her consider i confessed to her but i like her sm that i share things that ion like sharing or never did for example my food, maybe im being delusional or in denial)

 

[iiserene]

it seems like you guys are just going through some hard times.
every relationship tends to have their ups and downs and those times identify if you guys are really ¨for eachother¨
your situation seems very hard to deal with and it is good that your friend has been trying to help
wish you the best of luck <3

 

[Harleyquinfan]

yea she VERY persistance in a way but yea she's the one that said she could feel that there was some tension between us bc everyime a sees me she looks at me than looks away nd today when my dance teacher was asking me where i been nd i was answering her i turned around for a second nd saw her looking at me all i could say was "wht?" she shook her head nd went back to her phone

nd thank youuu

 

[iiserene]

your welcome <3
i personally have never been in a relationship T-T but a lot of my friends have, so ik its hard.
and I wish you the best of luck w/ your situation!

 

[Harleyquinfan]

thanks! im gonna need it T-T

 

[Seogi]

Love has become a joke now, so the best option is to be single have fun and enjoy life without a partner, plus you don't have to share dessert! /hj

 

[iiserene]

Love has become a joke now, so the best option is to be single have fun and enjoy life without a partner, plus you don't have to share dessert! /hj

your just spitting facts

 

[Harleyquinfan]

Love has become a joke now, so the best option is to be single have fun and enjoy life without a partner, plus you don't have to share dessert! /hj

nothing but facts

 

[Seogi]

your just spitting facts

nothing but facts

 

[Starman]

Love has become a joke now, so the best option is to be single have fun and enjoy life without a partner, plus you don't have to share dessert! /hj

Spoiler: hot take but

love does exist you just need to work for it. We
mostly dont see it because we are addicited to nsfw i know some of yall are going to say "but i dont watch it" yes you do you just don't get it the only love is you are going to get is from an 80 year old your dating online. Anyways to find love is to first have some decentenice in yourself, have good manners, be healthly, have a relaxed mind / open mindset, + just love someone ask them out but first take care of your self i know u aint gunna ask out sum person stinky and unhealth first workout talk a walk / run do something it aint gunna hurt dont practice just act nornal your life aint a script. and if they say no its a no dont drag your self down for a fricking no. Its not the end of the world calm down. anyways a small rant abt loving ppl in 21th century.

 

[iiserene]

i love everything you just said! i feel like everyone has different preferences on relationships; yours is just very relatable and true!

 

[Starman]

fr what they said above so like insperationan
i dont knoe what im talking about

i love everything you just said! i feel like everyone has different preferences on relationships; yours is just very relatable and true!

 

[Seogi]

Spoiler: hot take but

love does exist you just need to work for it. We
mostly dont see it because we are addicited to nsfw i know some of yall are going to say "but i dont watch it" yes you do you just don't get it the only love is you are going to get is from an 80 year old your dating online. Anyways to find love is to first have some decentenice in yourself, have good manners, be healthly, have a relaxed mind / open mindset, + just love someone ask them out but first take care of your self i know u aint gunna ask out sum person stinky and unhealth first workout talk a walk / run do something it aint gunna hurt dont practice just act nornal your life aint a script. and if they say no its a no dont drag your self down for a fricking no. Its not the end of the world calm down. anyways a small rant abt loving ppl in 21th century.

Wow. Thank you for letting stuff out! I competely agree with this!
I just simply don't feel to urge to have sex or make out with somebodyy so yeah!

 

[Starman]

Wow. Thank you for letting stuff out! I competely agree with this!
I just simply don't feel to urge to have sex or make out with somebodyy so yeah!

well the sex part is understandable

i just hate that ppl say that they cant find love when they cant make a change for thesleves

 

[Seogi]

Some people simply don't want love or a partner some people prefer to be alone, y'know? AroAce's exist.

well the sex part is understandable

i just hate that ppl say that they cant find love when they cant make a change for thesleves

 

[nina]

well i feel like relationships doesnt always have to be with the opposite sex/gender i feel like if u fall inlove and its ur gender like girl girl u should be able to date them without any pressure or anybody talking ab ur relationship and how its wrong 24/7.

also sex shouldnt be forced.

 

[Call_MeRover]

I'm just going to use a letter so i dont expose them:
B is being petty They say nobody likes them and is being hated. Its actually the opposite. most of my friends have a crush on B and are always talking about them every chance they get. It pisses me off because B knows how important they are. They are always yelling at me and saying i dont care about them when i do and dont want them to be hurt.

 

[Starman]

well thats them im talking about the ppl that whine about love and shit

Some people simply don't want love or a partner some people prefer to be alone, y'know? AroAce's exist.

 

[Rengya_Utoma]

I have a lack of them. Both romantic & platonic.

Also, bro, my friend has gone off the deep end.

Spoiler: TW: talking about a long-time friend's drug addiction & a brief mention of SA

He does acid, pops pills, and all that shit, and it's not good. Seeing, basically, a childhood friend doing drugs like that is not good to see. He doesn't listen, he says that "it's good for you", which is high-level bullshit, and I'm just like "huh????". He says he's going to quit, he doesn't. Tbf, I think he's trying, but he's addicted. I can't be around that shit. He just dismisses my other friend too. No, it's not fine, it's not "safe", that shit's not okay at all. We're here for him, he shouldn't need drugs & run away from his problems. All he has to do is express his feelings, to us, to his family, to other adults, to a therapist, etc. I know firsthand that bottling that shit in is not okay. I've been through SA before, terrible bullying, incredible pressure to meet other people's expectations but not succeeding, and other shit. I've literally been diagnosed with severe PTSD, but does that stop me from living life? No, it doesn't. Idk what bro's going through, but he needs to get out of this phase real quick before I have D.A.R.E come to the school real quick.